Monthly Archives: October 2009

Our Encounter with Mary,Mother of God


Both Tom and I are cradle Catholics. Both of our families were faithful and obedient to the Church. My father chose the U.S. Army as a career and so the family moved often and lived in various states and countries. While it was a good experience and educational; my brothers and I hadn’t the chance to attend Catholic Schools. However, my parents always made sure we were attending Catechism classes and involved in the Church. Tom was raised in a small town in Iowa and attended Catholic Schools through the 12th grade. We share this part of our life to give you a background on how both of our families were indeed committed to living the faith.

Mary Jane’s Story
I am the firstborn of three. My parents married when my mother was 18 after a lengthy courtship with my father. I was born in their first year of marriage. Well almost….my mother became quite ill during the pregnancy and almost lost the baby – me. She and her mother have a devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary under the title of Our Lady of San Juan (Our Lady of St. John). In discovering that she may loose the baby; she and my grandmother made a “promise” a “promesa” (in Spanish) asking our Lady of San Juan’s intercession and consecrated the baby to her. Well, behold I was born! In my adult life, I became more attracted to Mary. One of my favorite prayers to Mary is called the Hail Mary.

Eventually, Tom and I were attracted to a religious community founded in France in 1975 called the Congregation of St. John consisting of priests, brothers and sisters. We became Oblates of St. John (similar to a Third Order ). I don’t think it is coincidental that I become a member of this community. After all, they are named after their Spiritual Father – St. John the Evangelist.

Tom’s Story
When my mother was pregnant with me, she had Uremic poisoning and received the Last Rites, however, I was born premature on Mother’s Day, May 13th, Feast of Our Lady of Fatima and then all was well with my mother. In my adult life I discovered the power of Mary’s intercession. My favorite prayer is the Memorare. By the way, Mary Jane and I discovered Mother Teresa’s ‘express novena’ – praying nine Memorare’s. At times we choose to pray this “express novena”, trusting in our Lady’s prayers, in the prayers of our Mother, the Mother of God.

Mary, Our Mother in Heaven


“Catholicism Live!” program on Catholic Television and Guadalupe Radio Network was on a woman from the Holy Land, born in Jerusalem, lived in Nazareth. She was a part of God’s plan of salvation and is known throughout the world, holding many titles. This woman is Mary, the Mother of God; mother of all humanity.

The following are quotes used on the program and some that we didn’t have time to share. So here they are! They are beautiful, and can easily be taken to heart and can lead us to contemplate the gift from our Heavenly Father: Mary!

“A Mother of all mothers – is needed to heal the wound from our mother, or any wound. … In order to heal it, Mary must be given to us as a Mother by Jesus, at the Cross.”
Fr. Marie Dominique Philippe +

“The Rosary, though clearly Marian in character, is at heart a Christ-centered prayer.”
John Paul II

“To pray the rosary is to hand over our burdens to the merciful hearts of Christ and his Mother. Through the Rosary, the faithful receive abundant grace, as through from the very hands of the Mother of the Redeemer.” John Paul II

“The Rosary when it is prayed in an authentic way, not mechanical and superficial but profoundly brings, in fact, peace and recnciliation. It contains within itself the healing power of the Most Holy name of Jesus, invoked with faith and love at the center of each “Hail Mary”.
Pope Benedict XVI

We invite you to watch a 9-part series on “Theotokos – Mary, Mother of God” on Catholic Television of San Antonio (CTSA), Channel 15 on Time Warner Cable beginning Wednesday, October 27th at 9pm. We were a part of this series with CTSA, as we lead a group of pilgrims to Lourdes, Fatima and Marian Shrines in Spain this Spring. This year, Lourdes celebrates its 150th year anniversary of Mary’s apparitions to Bernadette. Go to and watch a 3 minute video introduction to the series.

Soon, we will share with you how we encountered Mary! To Jesus through Mary!

People Often Ask WHAT IS FAITH?


by Deacon Tom & Mary Jane Fox

First of all, it is a supernatural (theological) virtue that is a gift we receive from God when we are baptized, alone with the other theological virtues Hope and Charity. “The object of this faith is truth about God and the things that pertain to God. The object of faith is not something seen or sensed; nor, in itself, is this object grasped by the intellect.” (Tour of the Summa)

Father Marie-Dominique Philippe, OP, in a paper he wrote on the Holy Eucharist said, “The temptation to consider that the word is greater than the Eucharist is a consequence of a certain intellectualism which is not sufficiently able to be overcome by faith. In a supernatural point of view, we love more to understand than to believe; whereas, we should love more to believe than to understand.”

In other words, there are times when we must surrender our intelligence in order to believe. Remember, it is to Almighty God that we are surrendering our intelligence. We are surrendering our human gift of intelligence so that we can better receive His divine gift of Faith. We surrender our intelligence to the truths that God has revealed and we do not understand. As we profess in the Act of Faith, “I believe in these and all the truths which the Holy Catholic teaches because you have revealed them, who can neither deceive nor be deceived.”

It is for this reason that we profess the Creed together as a faith community. It is important to be aware of the fundamental truths that bind us together as Christians.

“The internal act of faith is the unhesitant assent of the mind or intellect, under the direction of the will, to the truth that is proposed for belief upon sufficient authority. In the case of religious faith, the authority is God, who is truth itself.” (Tour of the Summa)

Our external act of faith is not only the Creed we profess out loud, but also the way we live. St. James tells us, “Be assured, then that faith with out works is as dead as a body without breath.” James 3:26

If our Faith does not influence our decisions it is dead. If our faith does not inspire us to pray everyday and to worship God it is dead.

For this reason we have chosen a slogan we often use, “Faith is a gift, believing is a choice!”

Seeking Eternal Life


Gospel Reflection from Mark 10:17-30

by Deacon Tom & Mary Jane Fox

The rich young man knelt before Jesus, knowing Jesus had words of eternal life, but when Jesus told him to give his possessions to the poor he went away sad because he trusted in his wealth more than in the invitation of Jesus. Jesus is inviting all of us to follow him, but to follow him faithfully we cannot love a person, place or thing more than him. It is in loving God above all else that we can reach our potential to love ourselves and to love others. God has a great plan for us, but He must be the most important part of the plan. It is impossible for us to be truly happy in this life and for all eternity relying on our own resources.

The only way we can discover the generosity of God’s providence is by trusting in Him, even when it doesn’t reasonable. We found that spending time in prayer – in a Church, Chapel, a prayer room, your car – simply to take time out and think that Jesus is front of you listening to you can be a great start! Some of the greatest Saints known through the History of the Catholic Church started this way. Well…maybe not in the car…but they took that first step!

“All things are possible for God.” Mk 10:27

PODCAST: 9/3/09 Catholicism Live – The Shroud of Turin


Pete Remmert joined us on Catholicism Live Wednesday night to discuss his experiences and expertise regarding the Shroud of Turin, which is believed by many to be the actual burial cloth of Jesus Christ.–%20FULL%20SHOW.mp3
Original audio source

If you’d like to see the Shroud of Turin for yourself, Catholicism Live hosts Deacon Tom & Mary Jane Fox are leading a special pilgrimage from San Antonio to see the Shroud April 25 – May 10, 2010. See the Shroud pilgrimage page on our website or call us at (210) 521-3377 for more details.