Drafted into WWI German army at 18 years old, Josef Engling didn’t live to see the war’s end.
His life lasted only 20 years, but his legacy continues today through a spiritual movement called Schoenstatt – of which Josef was a founding member. Why does he remain so influential? Well, he was just like you and me: teased for his crooked walk and slurred speech, engaged in the struggle to live a good life – even when he felt confused, useless or weak.
Yet Josef had learned the secret to success in this life:
I want to become all things to all people and to belong totally to Our Lady; I want to be faithful even in the smallest things and to carry out the ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
Sacrifices for Mary
Easter 1916, before the war: Josef was a seminarian with the Pallotine Fathers in the Schoenstatt region of Germany. But he was feeling lost. Even with Easter’s celebratory atmosphere, his spiritual life was weak. (I can relate!) Sitting in reflection, he looked around him and noticed all the flowers in bloom.
Suddenly – inspiration hit.
As any son who loves his mother would, Josef wanted to offer flowers to his mother. That is, his spiritual mother: Mary. She is the one who remained faithful to God continuously – from Jesus’ conception to his crucifixion, and the outpouring of the Holy Spirit after the first Easter. Josef knew that Mary would help him boost his spiritual life. But how? He wrote her a letter:
May Blossoms from the garden of my heart presented to the Queen of May in May 1916. Mother, the whole garden of my heart is dedicated to you. For you I will plant and cultivate in it:
…and he began a list of “blossoms” he would offer her. Notice how easily we can imitate this young man’s novel idea.
The Rose of Love and Esteem
As the rose is the queen of flowers, so you be the Queen of my Heart. I place everything at your disposal, my Queen.
- Acts of honor and reverence toward Mary and her picture
- Reading and speaking about Mary
- Visits to the chapel and praying the Rosary
- Receiving Holy Communion
- Any act that promotes the Gospel
The Forget-Me-Not of Faithfulness in Your Service
- Praying my prayers well
- Being attentive at studies and spiritual reading
- Doing my chores well, including making my bed properly and keeping my desk in order
- Obeying the rules
- Following my conscience
The Violet of Humility and Modesty
- Accepting corrections or criticism patiently
- Forgiving offenses
- Obeying cheerfully
The Passion Flower of Crosses and Love of Sacrifice
- Patient acceptance of unpleasant things
- Working on good manners and courtesy to others
- Making little sacrifices at meals
- Faithfulness to my examination of conscience
- Other sacrifices
The Lily of Purity
- Guarding my eyes, especially in the dormitory
- Not getting involved in chatter about impure things
- Praying for the gift of purity before Holy Communion
Each of Josef’s ordinary, everyday activities were transformed into gifts for the Mother of God – his own spiritual Mother. As time passed, his growth and maturity was noticeable.
Soon all the young men who lived with Josef adopted this practice. On Sundays, they would draw pieces of paper from a margarine tub containing their “blossoms” for the week. The priests who oversaw the boys were surprised at the tremendous increase in respect, order, kindness, and spirituality among them.
On the Battlefield
Mother, if it wasn’t for the support I feel from you, I would be totally confused and nervous. Today, my company is resting from the fighting – except for myself, who must stand guard. Tomorrow, it will be the same. I am so hungry and thirsty, with little hope of getting letters. All I receive is the mockery from my comrades. But my love for you helps me bear everything.
I want to become a great saint. Shouldn’t I take all that is happening now with patience and serenity?
You see? Josef was normal like us; the Christian life was still a struggle. But he knew he must follow after Jesus and daily take up his cross. Josef’s fellow soldiers mocked his schedule of prayer and penance. But, wishing always to please his beloved Mother Mary and Her Son, he stuck with it.
Josef’s example is one we can all follow. He knew he had to live each day, each moment as a Christian. At the same time, he recognized, he was never alone…
We have a host of friends in Heaven by our side, cheering us on – first among them, our Mother. We can do this.