Recently, my husband, Tom and I were traveling out of state to a funeral of a family member. It was five in the morning, we had just parked our car in the airport parking lot and boarded the airport bus transport to our departing terminal. The driver, quite energetic welcomed us on the bus with a big smile. How sweet, I thought to myself. Looking around at others in the bus, everyone appeared serious, most looking at their smart phones.
As we drove to the terminal, the driver began to greet everyone on board with a joyful “Good Morning! May God bless your day today! I woke up this morning thanking Him for my life, my job. Have you thanked Him? You know it’s our Attitude and Gratitude that will get us through!. I begin the day with an attitude to think about all the good I have and then thank God for everything! Attitude & Gratitude – two words we need to live by.”
As I listened, I was nodding in agreement, and was captivated with the driver’s joy and unhabited expression of her faith and trust in God! Out of seven passengers in the bus, only one other, a young man, raised his head from his smartphone and seemed interested in the driver’s message. The others seemed oblivious to the driver’s words. The driver attempted to bring some light in the dark hours of that early morning with her message. Arriving at the Terminal, I kept thinking of those two words: Attitude & Gratitude.
How can Attitude & Gratitude make a difference in our lives?
Our attitude, stems from our free will, our willingness to choose a good disposition which can lead to a good attitude. A positive attitude can produce gratitude.
An elderly Franciscan Friar once told me, “Put a smile on, even if you don’t feel like it!” When you make it a habit to smile, it can bring about a feeling of gratitude for the little or simple things in life.” It makes sense! So often, we would rather not smile, or not feel good about certain responsibilities.
I would like to add a few words to the Franciscan Friar’s advice on smiling. Put on a smile on and ask God for His blessing for the day, for that moment.
A good example is Saint Mother Teresa, whose deep faith and hope in God resulted in her extraordinary service to the poor. Her daily disposition stemmed from her love and trust in God in spite of the immense poverty around her. Her service to the dying, to the poor; was the fruit of her relationship with God and those around her received a sense of dignity and worth through her copious love for others.
She loved to say, “Perhaps I don’t speak their language, but I can smile”
Mother Teresa was canonized a Saint by Pope Francis on September 4, 2016 in Rome. She was a great role model of having a positive attitude and living a life of gratitude, because her source was God, who is all Good and Merciful.
Learn more about other role models in the Church, by reading the lives of the Saints and by attending our monthly ‘Afternoon Tea with the Saints’ at the Pilgrim Center of Hope.